Cool, so you just change your thoughts and emotions about a subject and it drops into your lap as a gift? … Or so you are told by some overly enthusiastic loa teachers (on ‘the Secret’ for example). There must be a catch, right?? And there is …

The law of attraction gets you all that you wish for???
Let me ‘splain: What is needed for your dream car / house / husband/wife (insert your most burning wishes here) to drop into your lap according to loa? You must change your ‘vibration’ towards the subject. Then it simply *has* to come into your life. So far so good *and* true (believe it or not). But why aren’t we all billionaires with huge cars, villas and lovely partners (please scratch obvious reasons like ‘There is no place for 6 billion villas on this planet’ and ‘not everybody is relationship-available and -able’)??

The catch with the law of attraction is …
The reason is *drumroll*: not everybody is willing to do what is necessary to change his or her vibration! The human psyche has an inbuilt inertia that abhors change and that makes your inner reward system in your brain scream every time you try to change something as major as your money vibration for example if it was pretty bad before.

To truly change it requires patience *wince* , persistence *double-wince* and a good deal of will-power and I guess you agree with me that not everybody is born iron-willed or with saint-like patience.

It can be a marathon, not a sprint
Many people start out with some successes loa-wise in parts of their lives where there is not so much vibrational grime so changes can happen quickly and so do results (free parking spots, ‘random’ acts of kindness, small money wins etc.).
The moment you start to face year long issues however, you’re in for a marathon and not for a sprint. Here the help of one or a few good friends and/or supportive family is needed. Or even a (loa) coach that can take you by the hand for a while and lead you through this bumpy terrain. That’s what no-one tells you, when you first go for your dreams with loa as a tool.

The strongest force in the universe has your back
On the upside, you truly have one of the most fundamental laws of our universe working behind the scenes, so theoretically impossible is only what you can not conceive of.

Don’t forget, new things and circumstances can come into your life at lightning speed, quick changes *are* possible, but only in as much as *you* are willing to change!

As always, more to all and less to none and enjoy your day!

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Hi all,
I was alerted by a kind commenter that my RSS feed is not working at the moment. I would like to apologize for the inconvenience – I am currently working on fixing this!

Erik

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Here are some quick thoughts that I would like to add that are close to my previous post (had those two articles hanging around for a while on my iPhone notepad so now they finally get published ).

In between = vibration of its own

When you are in the process of changing or rather manifesting a new reality, sometimes it goes lightning quick and sometimes it takes months to manifest. Anyhow, the phase in between your old vibration and the new one is a vibration of its own. That is there are three distinct and simple phases: the old vibration, the process of transition and the new vibration but each have their own vibration to them.

Why I mention this here and why it is tricky is because you could possibly get hung up in the process phase in which you are thinking I’ll soon have / be / feel my new situation.
At first glance, this might look like an innocent thought with a positive vibration. Of course it vibes higher than your previous vibration, BUT there is a very important aspect which makes it worthwhile not staying there.

The part of your thought that says I will soon have / be … delays your wished for result in the future. Better would be to focus on your end result instead of the process of becoming.

So whenever you find yourself thinking a thought along the lines above, switch it immediately for a thought or feeling of your target manifestation and hold it for some moments so that the difference in vibration has time to sink in.

This will speed up your transition into your wished for target state / feeling / manifestation.

Of course it’s still very important to listen to hunches that you get pointing to inspired action, since for some manifestations some action is still required.

Why do we get hung up in the phase in between?

First of all, we see the actual state of things (which in most cases when we start out to manifest something new is not the wished for state) and since we have a tendency to concentrate on and think about what we see, the thoughts about current reality get too much headspace.

Second, this physical reality has some kind of safety mechanism built in so that our thoughts do not become things the very moment we think of them. I would call this manifestational inertia. This inertia is much needed, otherwise there would a) be chaos on this earth (with all the mostly uncontrolled thoughts in our heads) and b) you would not be able to live the contrast of wishing for something and not having it yet and then finally having it. And after all this earth is all about living contrast or duality (good vs. bad, bright vs. dark, love vs. indifference etc.).

But I don’t want to wait!!

You might ask Why would I want to experience all the waiting?? – I’d answer point well taken BUT, don’t you think this world would be plain boring if you could have everything imaginable at the wink of an eye? In my opinion, this manifestational inertia is one of the mechanisms in this reality that allows for some of the most juicy things to be experienced anywhere. The joy of finally having your wish fulfilled is totally sweet in my opinion and totally worth it.

By the way, the more you get comfy with using the law of attraction, the shorter the delay between thought and manifestation gets (with all the good and the bad sides to it).  So the only way to make your manifestations appear quicker is to lift your vibration (by gratitude, fun, rest, love, etc.) and start to consciously choose your thoughts and feelings.

So, happy conscious creating and more to all and less to none !

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